PASTORAL COUNSELLING
Heal. Restore. Connect.
Welcome
Hi, my name is James. I am a registered Pastoral Counsellor based in Paarl, dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families strengthen their relationships and build meaningful connections that will last a lifetime.
In today’s fast-paced world, maintaining strong family bonds can be challenging. The quality of your relationships deeply influences the quality of your life. I invite you to embark on a journey of reconnection — with yourself, your loved ones, and God.
Vision
Empowering individuals, couples, and families to thrive through lasting and fulfilling relationships.
Rewrite Your Story
Counselling sessions are available both in-person and online, in Afrikaans or English. While my approach is grounded in Biblical principles, I warmly welcome adults, teenagers (ages 12 and up), and families from all backgrounds and religions. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can confidently share your story
and be heard.
Services Offered In-Person or Online
How can I help?
Individual Counselling
Divorce Counselling
Couples Counselling
Grief/Bereavement Counselling
Family Counselling
Addictions
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About Me
I am first and foremost a follower of Jesus Christ, and a man of God. I'm blessed to be a husband to my amazing wife, Lindi. My years of marriage have truly been the best of my life, and I want to help others experience the same fulfillment in marriage that I've been so fortunate to find.
I'm also a bonus dad to three incredible boys and a father to the most beautiful baby girl. Being both a bonus dad and a biological dad has taught me so much about the complexities and joys of blended families.
For the past two years, Lindi and I have been leading Divorce Care at our church. Her personal experience with divorce has sparked her passion for helping others in similar situations, and as part of a blended family myself, I understand the unique challenges that come with it.
My journey with God began when I was 8 years old, and I’ve never looked back. Growing up in a home that fostered children, I witnessed firsthand the brokenness in the world, which inspired me to dedicate my life to helping others. Though I once dreamed of becoming a pastor, I took a detour, spending 15 years in construction and as a member of a rock band. During that time, I felt called to reach people in places where many Christians wouldn’t go, and I gained invaluable life experience.
Eventually, I joined an evangelical group that toured South Africa, spreading the gospel. I worked closely with teenagers, helping them navigate the unique struggles of adolescence. This experience led me to study Theology, and it was through this journey that I discovered my passion for counseling. Now, I’m focused on guiding individuals, couples, and families toward healing, restoration, and lasting connection.
Formal Qualifications and Professionial Affiliations
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Bachelor of Theology (BTh) in Pastoral Counselling
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Registered with the Association of Christian Religious Practitioners (ACRP)
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Registered with the Council for Pastoral and Spiritual Counsellors (CPSC), holding a CPSC Category 4 accreditation as a Religious Professional in Christian Pastoral Counselling.
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Additionally, I have completed various short courses in different areas and continue to pursue ongoing education regularly.
Bookings
What to expect
ENQUIRE & BOOK
Well done on taking the courageous first step toward positive change!
For the quickest response, please reach out to me via WhatsApp. As I’m often in consultations and unable to take calls, messaging me ensures I can respond as soon as I’m available.
If WhatsApp isn’t convenient, you can also contact me via email or fill out the contact form on my website.
I'm here to support you and excited to begin this journey with you.
ASSESSMENT
In our first session, we’ll assess your situation and background to create a plan for the changes you want to achieve.
This will help us determine if we’re a good fit for counselling, and you should leave feeling understood and clear on the next steps.
At this point you can decide if you’d like to continue, and I’ll suggest a weekly schedule.
Feel free to ask any questions to ensure you’re comfortable.
START COUNSELLING
Sessions are 50-60 minutes and by appointment only.
I focus on building a safe, trusting relationship while addressing your concerns to develop strategies for lasting change.
We’ll regularly review progress to ensure you’re benefiting and to decide when to conclude.
It’s not my role to save you or change your circumstances, but to guide you, offer options, and equip you with tools to help yourself. You remain responsible for your own change.
